the babe, the boy, and me....

...a running commentary on my life in general. Who knows what I will write about on any given day? It could be about the kids (The Boy, age 3 or The Babe, age 5), it could be about my husband, or it could be about (gasp!) me, and what I am thinking/feeling/doing. After all, it is "all about erika". I am not sure how entertaining this might be to anyone who isn't me. You've been warned.

Friday, May 11, 2007

mother's day

The Babe made me a picture at school for a Mother's Day gift. The front of it is a print of her hand with a heart in the center, and there is a nice little poem that goes with it.

On the back, she drew a picture of me, and there were spaces where she had to answer questions about me. Her teacher obviously wrote in whatever it was that The Babe said:

My mother is _______ years old. The Babe answered 22. LOL
She likes to eat _______. The Babe answered lasagne. Correct!
I love her because _________. The Babe answered because "she gives me what I want". Hmmmmm...
She likes to ________. Work. The Babe thinks I like to work.

That last one has me bothered. #1, I don't really like to work. Who likes to work? But #2, it makes me feel like she thinks I would rather be working than doing things with her; and that makes me sad.

Maybe I am overly sensitive because I work at home, and it is pretty often that The Babe or The Boy will ask me to play Memory, or build a zoo, or have a tea party, or whatever, and I have to say that "Mommy can't right now. Mommy needs to work." I *always* feel terrible that I have to work and not play. I'd rather play. I feel as though they are trapped in this boring old house with a no-fun, has to work mommy... and now here it is. On my mother's day picture. "Mommy likes to work" *sigh* I wish it said "Mommy likes to bake cookies" or "Mommy likes to read me stories". But no. "Mommy likes to work". :(

6 Comments:

Blogger CrunchyCon said...

Oh honey, I KNOW! I know. Usually when I put L.O. down for a nap or bedtime and I tell her I have to go, she askes,"you going to work momma?"

UGH!

((hugs))

At least she got your age correct!

7:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

(((hugs)))

7:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

T thinks I like to go to the grocery store, work on the computer and go to the gym. He also drew me with black hair. I think these questions catch them off guard and the first they just say the first thing that comes to mind. ((HUGS))

3:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'd be afraid to ask, but of course now I will.

(((hugs)))

9:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe she confuses "work" with other random internet time. I know, me just being on the computer Lucas assumes I am "working my job"- kwim?

9:35 PM  
Blogger sb said...

My heartbreaking moment was when S told me that I'm always leaving her... *hugs*

7:52 AM  

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